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Screening for IPV When Children Are Involved

When children are involved, IPV screening helps inform parenting arrangements and safety. Here is what parents should know.
Raquel Soteldo, RP, with the National Center of Excellence for Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control (NCE-IPVCC) and Soteldo Psychotherapy Clinic logos
Raquel Soteldo, RP, with the National Center of Excellence for Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control (NCE-IPVCC) and Soteldo Psychotherapy Clinic logos
Raquel Soteldo, RP — Soteldo Psychotherapy Clinic and the National Center of Excellence for Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control (NCE-IPVCC).

Parenting plans, decision-making and exchanges can become points of ongoing control after separation. Screening helps make sure safety concerns are seen before arrangements are negotiated.

Things screening may explore

  • Safety during exchanges and communication
  • Use of children to monitor or pressure a parent
  • Existing court orders or child protection involvement
  • Whether communication needs structure or limits

Support for the whole process

Screening can help guide next steps, such as therapy, safety planning, legal consultation or structured parenting communication.

Considering a screening conversation?

Our IPV & Coercive Control Screening service offers a confidential, clinician-led conversation to help you understand your situation and possible next steps. Each person is screened separately, and you can share your safest way to be contacted.

Learn more about IPV & Coercive Control Screening →

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For crisis lines and safety resources, visit Help Now.

Looking for self-paced survivor courses and resources? Visit linktr.ee/narcclinic.

This article is for general education and is not a diagnosis, legal advice or a substitute for individual clinical care.

National Center of Excellence for Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control is not a psychotherapy service.

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