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What Happens in an IPV and Coercive Control Screening Appointment?

Wondering what screening involves? Here is a step-by-step look at a confidential IPV and coercive control screening conversation.
Raquel Soteldo, RP, with the National Center of Excellence for Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control (NCE-IPVCC) and Soteldo Psychotherapy Clinic logos
Raquel Soteldo, RP, with the National Center of Excellence for Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control (NCE-IPVCC) and Soteldo Psychotherapy Clinic logos
Raquel Soteldo, RP — Soteldo Psychotherapy Clinic and the National Center of Excellence for Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control (NCE-IPVCC).

Many people hesitate to book a screening because they are unsure what will be asked. Knowing what to expect can make the first step feel safer.

What to expect

  • A private, confidential conversation at your own pace
  • Questions about relationship patterns, safety and current circumstances
  • Attention to your safest ways of being contacted
  • A discussion of possible next steps, such as therapy, safety planning, legal referral or mediation suitability

What screening is not

Screening is not couples counselling, not a court-ordered assessment and not legal advice. Our screening uses a framework informed by different established tools; certified administrations of these assessments are not yet offered.

Considering a screening conversation?

Our IPV & Coercive Control Screening service offers a confidential, clinician-led conversation to help you understand your situation and possible next steps. Each person is screened separately, and you can share your safest way to be contacted.

Learn more about IPV & Coercive Control Screening →

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For crisis lines and safety resources, visit Help Now.

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This article is for general education and is not a diagnosis, legal advice or a substitute for individual clinical care.

National Center of Excellence for Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control is not a psychotherapy service.

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